Every time I see your name, I think of John Wayne, don't know why! Anyhow, I suspect that part of the reason you may feel "attacked" is because of this position you take. DW and I, usually only stay at Monorail Resorts. We also go to the parks enough that EMH aren't that big of a deal to us.
That said, we stay at Monorail Resorts because those are the ones we like best, partially because of the Monorail! We pay for that benefit (we have been told this many times when booking our stays by the CM's when asked why these three resorts are higher priced than others..). That doesn't mean we are above riding a bus! I'd have to think about it but I almost feel that to be an insult to me! Not to worry, I'm not flaming here..., just expressing my point of view which it seems you cannot empathize with.
I have no problem taking buses. They are a part of getting around Disney and the most certainly are not "beneath me". But, I pay for a Monorail Resort and for that premium, I expect adequate usage. In my opinion, it's like paying for Concierge and being given a Standard Room with no credit.
I guess people can argue that there is no price premium for these resorts but that is not how I understand it to be. I can only say, AKL and WL are less expensive than CR, PR and GF.
Bottom line, it has nothing to do with being "better" than anyone else. It's a question of getting what you paid for, nothing more.