Sagginit
Hulagirl_Tiki
- Joined
- Jul 15, 2009
So I have been cleaning out our apartment a lot the last year. One thing I noticed is 75% of junk I quickly find and identify to purge are items that have been given to me, not purchased by us because we need it. I have family that every year for the holidays turn up their noses at the thought of not doing gifts. I also have a mother who borders on overbearing who insists on giving gifts to our toddler and buying us "bigger" gifts for the holidays, like a small appliance. This is leading to drama and stress because my husband sometimes wants to hold onto items so people don't find out we didn't use their gift (apparently they might raid my closets looking for those vacation trinkets they brought back for us). Also when I don't give gift ideas to family they sometimes act as if we are being difficult. We live in an apartment and quite frankly it will cost us in the long wrong to buy a house larger than we need just to fit stuff. It is also costing me time rounding up all the stuff and trying to figure out were I can get rid of it.
Has anyone been in this situation? Have you been able to end it? Are we destined to spend the rest of our days hiding gifts in closets for months and then finally donating them once we think family won't ask about them again?
Has anyone been in this situation? Have you been able to end it? Are we destined to spend the rest of our days hiding gifts in closets for months and then finally donating them once we think family won't ask about them again?