both have plusses and minuses~Just my POV but paying off a home is by no means free living. For many the equity starts to get eaten up by repairs.
On ownership, as we get older as do the homes. Large ticket repairs can really hit hard (roof, windows, driveway replacement, bathroom, furnace, water heater, A/C) will happen and at a minimum and where I live those would total out at about $65,000 going with super basic replacement and only doing 1 bathroom, no kitchen, no re-carpet or hardwood re-sanding etc. The typical home here has 2.5 baths so add another $8-10 K if all need updating, again very basic minimum, no upgrading (and over 30 years, they prob will)so for us, a budget of $75-80 at a minimum over a typical 30 year mtg timeline ~ a more realistic one is $100-125, on top of all that interest and principal over 20-30 years
Our property taxes are over $800 a month and HO insurance another $115. Ao $915 in addition to the principle. It sucks. DH is the main paycheck, his career is here, we are stuck. Companies used to cover relo and then some, but not really any more. Consider your professions and if you will be moving a lot or simply want to move a lot. In those cases, renting is prob a less stress free way to go and also better finaincially if you look to move more than once in 7 years. I know many people sell by Owner but my DH would want a Pro so deduct 5.5-6% from the sale of our home or basically the neighborhood of 23-25K. Our taxes will continue to rise, but so will rent. However, with the new tax laws we can no longer write off as much as we used to so *technincally* we could rent a similar home to what we have for $100-300 less per month than our current out-go . We still have 8 years until we pay off.
Creature comforts of owning all 4 walls is great, but to me only if in a detached single family dwelling. Our first place was a Condo in an 8 unit building and I loved it, but we were on the second floor and our kitchen, bath, and MB were on the shared wall preventing windows and while we lucked out, some owners did complain of noise issues along common walls. We faced south and our view was a golf course so had great views with no maintenence, but only had a 1 car garage..winters were not fun, no basement meant tornadoes were also not fun and storage was at a minimum. The buildings have since enforced no grilling on upper floor decks (wood) so that would relly be irritating to us. The one car garage didn't leave room to have a grill in there and I am not one to roll it out onto my driveway, go up and down stairs to grill, lol. If I were to be in that situation again, we would rent, not own as selling it was challenging when we needed to back in the late 80's.
I personally would love the flexibility of renting, being able to change locations/states etc and experience all kinds of things, but by the time we can retire will prob be too old to have the energy to do it. At the same time I hate being 55 and my *fun money* budget is non-existant because home repairs are gobbling it up. Plus, my DH and I can't do the repairs ourselve's forever..we have had to hire out already for some things we would have been able to pull off 10 years ago to help cut costs. No time anymore, repairs don't care that winter is 6 months long, they hit when they hit. To be fair, college and care-taking of parents over time hit us hard so money we were putting away for "home repairs" and the down payment on a small retirement condo took a hit as well..life happens
We most likely will not be able to comfortably afford our current home in retirement even paid off, due to taxes, repairs, utilities etc and still be able to maintain our current lifestyle, manage costs to travel some, medical, you know..enjoy retirement. I *kind* of look at owning a home as paying for the right to do whatever you want while you live in it, but then you have to pay to make it "appeal to the masses" come time to sell or lose a boatload of equity. I have homes in our neighborhood that have dropped $30-125K "updating" their homes to sell them, and that is on top of decorating to their style thru the years ~which, is why many buy a home,lol, to reflect their personal style, not be cookie cutter etc. The irony.
I would love to live in other states in retirement, FL, AZ~ ideally I would love to have 5+ in each, and would have to rent because selling costs would kill us.
We will prb sell and rent so our kids don't have to worry about selling our house when we kick it~and be renters if we can still manage living on our own. I may just walk into the ocean until my hat floats if my circumstances are dire, lol. I hear Spain, the Dominican Republic are Ex-Pat friendly and reasonable for retiree's..might have to look into the possibilities.
OP..I would live where you have the least stress and if it is renting, save whatever $ per month you come out ahead vs ownership. If you purchase, do so that allows you to put a monthy savings into home repair and "escape fund" as I call it, lol....having that cushion either way will have you loving where you live a LOT more than check to check to say you "own"