Haven't had time yet to look for the pics of Bethany & Tyler. Busy day ahead of us, so maybe when we get home and after Tyler's in bed tonight. Going to ride on Thomas the Train today because Tyler's been good all week. His last "episode" at day care was last Monday and I think he was shocked by his dad and I BOTH in the SAME room lecturing and angry at him. We both made it clear what will happen at BOTH houses if either of us gets a phone call at work to come pick him up again for him being out of control. I reminded him this every morning before I dropped him off, and had the day care teachers remind him occasionally too. Seems to be working, but I know a threat won't work for long. But he does remember because he told me today he really, really doesn't want that punishment to happen. It would be taking ALL his toys out of his bedroom and living room, putting them in storage totes and locking them in the attic. He will have the chance to earn them back, one at a time, by having a whole day of good behavior. It's a pretty drastic measure, but his hurting kids and adults at daycare is pretty drastic behavior, so I think it's fair. My friend Shelly did that to her kids when they were the same age and they never misbehaved again (other than minor acting out). I know all kids are different and things don't have the same effect on all kids, but I figure it's worth a try!