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- Feb 12, 2008
I need to go back and read....maybe that will get my mind on something else. I got a called Saturday morning that my dad was in the ICU. Saturday he was out of it, but knew who I was. But sadly it went south fast. He's on life support and we're hoping for the small victories. He has sepsis and it's on his heart valve (artificial) and some got to his brain. He started dialysis last night. He knows I hate going back to school, but I keep telling him I'm okay going back, he didn't need to do this for me
What I am realizing is how little we have in order. I have medical power of attorney on him. I also am on 2 of his 3 bank accounts. But I don't know anything about his bills, or all the other fun we're having. My mom has been here with us (my parents divorced when I was 26). It's making me realize all I need to do with her too! And with myself for my own kids.
This is going to be a VERY VERY VERY long journey.
What I am realizing is how little we have in order. I have medical power of attorney on him. I also am on 2 of his 3 bank accounts. But I don't know anything about his bills, or all the other fun we're having. My mom has been here with us (my parents divorced when I was 26). It's making me realize all I need to do with her too! And with myself for my own kids.
This is going to be a VERY VERY VERY long journey.