I say mail them. If people can't be considerate enough to a) let you know what's going on with their swap stuff and b) let you know that they aren't actually doing it, then they shouldn't be playing. It's not fair to the rest of the group who actually got the swap done and in to you and it's not fair to you. If the stuff arrives after you've swapped out, mail it back to them. (I'm really a nice person, but it drives me NUTS when people can't be bothered to say, "you know, I can't do this" or "oh gee I really forgot that it was due on such and such a date, I'm mailing it now"... ) maggie