So we're sitting around the dinner table tonight and I bring this thread up (yes, I realize I am a tiny bit obsessed with the DIS ) - my son is 14 and my daughter is 12, they both couldn't believe that anyone wouldn't want to go to WDW. I think maybe the reason my kids value their vacation time so much is that we were never able to afford to go anywhere until a few years ago. For them just the plane ride alone is a thrill .
But they did come up with some interesting comments about your situation - maybe your daughter is just tired of WDW, did you ever consider taking a vacation somewhere else (that's from my son). Maybe she is interested in a boy and is afraid of being away too long, or maybe she might fall out of favor with her friends if she skips town right now (my daughter's comment).
When my son was 12 years old, he decided he didn't want to go surfing with the family anymore. My husband was so sad, this is something we'd do together every summer. It was our "vacation time". We'd drive out to the country and spend the day at the beach, we'd all have such a good time. But surfing has always been my husbands passion, not my son. My daughter has inherited his love for the ocean so she's fine with it. I know it's not quite the same situation, but I sat my son down and had a conversation with him about how these excursions were not about surfing, or the long drive out to the country, it was about being together as a family. I pointed out to him that we only have a few years that we'll be all together like this, then they'd be off to live their own lives. I think it was a real revelation for him. Until that point I don't think he really thought of what happened beyond him being 12 years old. We still go surfing together, though not as often as before. I do know that my son values his time with the Ohana very much. It took me laying it out for him, but he got it.
Good luck with your situation. On the bright side, they're only pre-teens for a short time .
But they did come up with some interesting comments about your situation - maybe your daughter is just tired of WDW, did you ever consider taking a vacation somewhere else (that's from my son). Maybe she is interested in a boy and is afraid of being away too long, or maybe she might fall out of favor with her friends if she skips town right now (my daughter's comment).
When my son was 12 years old, he decided he didn't want to go surfing with the family anymore. My husband was so sad, this is something we'd do together every summer. It was our "vacation time". We'd drive out to the country and spend the day at the beach, we'd all have such a good time. But surfing has always been my husbands passion, not my son. My daughter has inherited his love for the ocean so she's fine with it. I know it's not quite the same situation, but I sat my son down and had a conversation with him about how these excursions were not about surfing, or the long drive out to the country, it was about being together as a family. I pointed out to him that we only have a few years that we'll be all together like this, then they'd be off to live their own lives. I think it was a real revelation for him. Until that point I don't think he really thought of what happened beyond him being 12 years old. We still go surfing together, though not as often as before. I do know that my son values his time with the Ohana very much. It took me laying it out for him, but he got it.
Good luck with your situation. On the bright side, they're only pre-teens for a short time .