Don't give up! There are a few of us in the 40's as well.
come in all ages. Some are just more willing to share their age than others. We fortysomethings can be a shy bunch you know.
Then, of course, there's the question of compatibility. I mean, I'm a deluxe/DVC 10 day trips at least twice a year, so I don't know how well I'd mesh with a value loving weekender (and there's no compatibility with a peak season crowd lover). Then there's the whole counter service vs table service thing to consider. Is it better to match up with someone who qualifies for two discount codes or three? Oh the decisions!
I'm glad the OP started this thread. It gives a person hope!