I am similar in size to you, and I can ride everything except for the Tea Cups and the Sum of All Thrills ride. I CAN ride the Tea Cups, but it's just not terribly comfortable to do so since the wheel hits in an uncomfortable spot for me, and I don't particularly like it anyway as it makes me a bit nauseous. Even Expedition Everest is not an issue for me. Sure, I don't get more than a few clicks on the bar, but it locks completely in place with no issue whatsoever.
The bigger concern is the fact that your DD is smaller than you and won't be securely restrained in some rides. The only one that readily comes to mind where this is a concern is Big Thunder Mountain Railroad as there is one lap bar for the whole car so your DD will slide around on her side of the seat. Fortunately, if she holds on, she should be fine. There was a 10 year old riding in a seat in front of me the last time I rode that slid side-to-side through the whole ride and seemed to love it.
Most everything else that is a "thrill ride" has separate lap bars that each person can adjust accordingly. There are a few tamer rides like Winnie the Pooh with the single bar, but they don't really restrain anything in the first place so there is nothing to worry about.
I hope this information helps. Have a magical trip!