ireland_nicole
<font color=green>No brainer- the fairy wins it<br
- Joined
- Feb 1, 2008
I can't believe I'm actually posting this, but I feel like I'm going to explode, so if possible, I really appreciate your patience.
We're in a really, really tough place right now. My wedding anniversary is today, and my DH is away on a cub scout camping trip w/ DS. He apparently isn't sure that he can do "this" anymore, and is considering leaving. Our life is often dominated by DD's outbursts and explosive rage. I had to go back to work 4 months ago because we are in so much debt from trying to get treatment for our kids.
And I really, really hate to admit this, and know that I'm the worst mom in the world, but right now I really, really wish I could have a do-over- and not have DD. I'm physically smarting from the kicks, bites, scratches and punches I got trying to get her out of Barnes and Noble. I'm emotionally exhausted from the awful hate that spews out of her mouth, and the constand living on eggshells; and I'm actually afraid of her; I keep the knives locked up because she has very calmly told me on several occasions that she's going to kill me with them while I'm sleeping.
We've seen every kind of specialist, done every behavioral intervention that's been recommended, every diet, every therapy, every med.Our life is so far from what I envisioned and hoped and dreamed for- it's a nightmare. And I'm so, so, so tired. I hate what our family dynamic is doing to DS, and I feel like a total failure. And at the end of the day I guess I am- I mean what kind of mom feels that way?
Most days I'm able to say, I love DD; I hate autism, and all her other disabilities that have affected her mind to the point that I can't seem to "connect" and reach her.
But today, I'm just to tired; and I don't know how to do this anymore.
We're in a really, really tough place right now. My wedding anniversary is today, and my DH is away on a cub scout camping trip w/ DS. He apparently isn't sure that he can do "this" anymore, and is considering leaving. Our life is often dominated by DD's outbursts and explosive rage. I had to go back to work 4 months ago because we are in so much debt from trying to get treatment for our kids.
And I really, really hate to admit this, and know that I'm the worst mom in the world, but right now I really, really wish I could have a do-over- and not have DD. I'm physically smarting from the kicks, bites, scratches and punches I got trying to get her out of Barnes and Noble. I'm emotionally exhausted from the awful hate that spews out of her mouth, and the constand living on eggshells; and I'm actually afraid of her; I keep the knives locked up because she has very calmly told me on several occasions that she's going to kill me with them while I'm sleeping.
We've seen every kind of specialist, done every behavioral intervention that's been recommended, every diet, every therapy, every med.Our life is so far from what I envisioned and hoped and dreamed for- it's a nightmare. And I'm so, so, so tired. I hate what our family dynamic is doing to DS, and I feel like a total failure. And at the end of the day I guess I am- I mean what kind of mom feels that way?
Most days I'm able to say, I love DD; I hate autism, and all her other disabilities that have affected her mind to the point that I can't seem to "connect" and reach her.
But today, I'm just to tired; and I don't know how to do this anymore.