We used to be more than willing to pay a little more for a Disney vacation - in addition to all the magical extras that are now gone, I can tell (and I"m sure many others can too) so many stories about how we WERE valued by Disney (which made us repeat visitors/AP holders to the tune of almost 20 trips in the past decade from out of state). I can also contrast that with the recent "loss of magic" we are sad about.
1) When my kids were 5 and 2, we took them to Disney for the first time. My exH was an unkind man, and he was behaving terribly - loudly and publicly - at Epcot. My daughter was 5, and dressed as Mulan, her favorite princess. We stood in line to meet Mulan, and it was a quiet park day, and Mulan spent over an HOUR with just my daughter, walking around China, letting her try on her Mulan shoes, joking about MuShu, chatting, hugging, and just being wonderfully kind to a very sad little girl. It was so overwhelmingly magical - it is literally one of my now-grown daughter's most amazing childhood memories; it brought me to tears then and still does as I type this. And when we returned to Epcot, about five years later, the SAME Mulan was at Epcot, and she remembered my daughter. They spent about ten minutes just talking and catching up. Pure joy and magic for a wounded little girl's heart.
2) A few year's later, about the time they were first rolling out Magic Bands, I "hosted" a large family group trip with about 15 of us to Disney. And we all had Magic Bands, and none of them worked - the entire trip. I spent hours at Guest Services, trying to sort out all the bills, costs, and issues. It was a total nightmare, and a miserable experience. About two days after I got home, there was an email in my inbox, providing a special number and a code for 3 days worth of tickets for 4 and two nights in a value resort to say "sorry" for our trainwreck of a trip. THAT was magical - and that was the beginning of our regular Disney trip decade. Of course mistakes happen, but Disney used to be wonderful at saying sorry when they did.
3) A few years after that, we had tried to book a "Princess" session for my daughter - she was aging out of the ability to do that, and when we showed up for the session, despite having our confirmation, they were either overbooked or there was some kind of error, and she couldn't have that experience. She was super disappointed, but we enjoyed the rest of our trip. About a week after we got home, a HUGE box was delivered with an autographed "Sorry" photo from MIckey; a Mickey Darth Vadar ear/hat for my son, and a set of little girl's nail polish and perfume and a stuffed Minnie. My daughter still has that bottle of nail polish from MIckey.
4) Maybe four years ago, my son had saved up his chore money (about $15) for a Disney souvineer. We had just finished riding Star Tours, and he was browsing in the shop; he LOVED Porgs. The stuff Porg was just a little more than he had, so he sadly put it back on the shelf; and as we were walking out, a Cast Member stopped us and handed us a bag - with the Porg in it - a gift from Mickey! She must have overheard our conversation. He is 15, and that Porg still sits on his bed.
My family has had our share of tough life stuff. Disney was our happy place; where people were kind, and unexpected good things happened. That's why we went. We could just drink in the beauty and the goodness, and feel safe and "escape" from our real world - even for a few days.
Over the past three years though, it is not the same Disney When Disney makes a mistake/error or offers less than Disney service; they are now regularly flippant, cold, and unapologetic. More recently, we booked a room specifically at a resort with a hot tub - it was a "bribe" to my now 15 year old for his grades - and when we got to the resort, the hot tub was "closed for maintenance" for our entire stay. When I asked at the front desk when the hot tub might be repaired, there wasn't even an "I'm so sorry" - despite our room request included being "close to the hot tub". When I asked if maybe we could visit another resort just for one day to enjoy a hot tub, the response was a very rude, "We don't do that." Well, you used to do nice things; just apparently not anymore.
This summer, we had requested a mid stay (8 night visit) floor cleaning due to a dust allergy - and a sharps container for medical waste. Neither was done/given, and when I asked at the front desk on two separate occasions, I was told that they had staffing difficulties and "excessive requests" could not always be accomodated. It was not a pleasant interaction.
I've posted before about the pretty significant
DAS issue we had this summer; when I did ask to speak with someone about that very serious situation, the Cast Member literally rolled her eyes and laughed. Glad you think my kid losing conciousness on a ride was funny. I was told "they were experiencing staffing issues" - not really reassuring. When I asked if they could possibly refund the balance of my Annual Passes since they could not provide a safe experience for my family with their current staffing challenges - I was told I would be receiving a follow up telephone call - which of course never came.
So, Disney USED to be a very special, magical, memorable place, worth every penny we worked for and saved. I wish it still was - and for anyone who DOES get to experience that, I'm happy for you. I really miss it.