I realized that I don't care much about a balcony either... I like to open the door for fresh air, but not sit outside.
Here are the resorts where I tend to like time on the balcony or patio. I'll note that until recently we had kids who went to bed before 8, so we had to be in the room anyway. Nowadays some of our balcony time is spent in the parks:
VGF: other than room 1221, every other room has lovely views. Monorail, lake, fireworks, sunrise, sunset.
RIV: same (so far) - we always request and get a high floor, which means MK fireworks and also sometimes EP fireworks.
BLT: fireworks, lake, monorail ... there is a theme here.
BWV boardwalk view: Boardwalk or village green view - we've only experienced it twice, but its great for coffee in the morning and wine/wind down at night.
AKV savanna: ...
Places where I don't use the balcony:
BCV: stayed here many times, never used. We're either at the pool or out at the parks. Not sure, though, how much this is due to the fact that there are no views to speak of
BWV: std / p/g - most of these small balconies don't face onto anything interesting. The one time we faced the pool, we were right at tree level. Big, bushy tree level.
Hm. I guess we happened to pick resorts that tended to have good views even though I wouldn't have said that was in my top 3 factors when choosing our home resorts.