Normally we travel 3 hours to my hometown on Thanksgiving morning, have mid afternoon big meal with my parents, sister and family and us (9 total). Then Black Friday, my mom, sister and I would go shopping and finish our respective family's Christmas shopping from my parents. Saturday would be a big meal of 30+ people with my dads side of the family. And its truly my favorite event of the year.
This year, DH goes on call for work on Friday of Thanksgiving week. Being he is the manager and in control of the schedule, he would normally rearrange this, but we opted to leave it alone as I am not comfortable with big gatherings at all. So the current plan is my immediate family (back to the 9 of us total) will come to our house for Thanksgiving dinner. My mom and sister still wanted to shop on Friday, but I bailed - over the years I have become less and less of a shopper anyway, and last year truly spent more time sitting on the bench waiting for them than I did browsing. Covid just sealed the deal and I try to avoid shopping pretty much all together, or at least very limited. The extended family still says Thanksgiving dinner is "as normal" t his year which I strongly disagree with, but nonetheless we will just not attend.