disneychrista
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- Dec 26, 2002
Inspired by @low-key 's Let's Be Friends thread
What does it mean to you when you say someone is your friend?
What does it mean to you when you say someone is your friend?
That person you can call that will bring the shovel, bleach, and tarp, no questions asked.
Someone who shares in your joy, is there for you when you have grief, generally someone who you are happy to see, talk to.
And on the flip side someone you will drop everything for to do the same. Friendship is a two-way street.
I do wonder how much the meaning of the word "friend" has degraded with the advent of social media. "I have X number of Facebook friends!"
To me, a friend is someone you can trust, who listens to you, will do things with/for you, and is easy to talk to, but is also honest with you and tells you what you need to hear and not what you want to hear. And like the PP mentioned, it is a two-way street. You have to be a friend, and they have to be a friend.
I know people who call everyone they know a friend. I don’t have many people that I consider true friends. I am friendly with a lot of people.
To me a friend is someone you see socially and talk to regularly. They are someone you can count on. They are not those you only say hi to if you run into them at the grocery store but don’t make effort to see or talk to beyond that.
And the best friend is the one that remains to help move the body and dig the hole!And on the flip side someone you will drop everything for to do the same. Friendship is a two-way street.
I do however have friends who I don't see or talk to for months at a time, yet whenever we do talk or see each other it's like no time at all has passed in terms of our friendship. Mostly we just wind up having so much news we want to share.
I think we have level of friends or at least I know I do. I have people that I would call in the middle of night and I have people that I'm happy to see and spend time with every so often...
A friend is ...a chosen family member.