disneykidatheart
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- Mar 14, 2005
I wonder if they've found another "friend" with whom to live rent free.
In my book, pride would have have been paying rent as soon as possible. That's a strange pride going on there.
Not wanting to mess up a friendship with a business relationship? Seems like they wouldn't have wanted to mess up a friendship with a mooching relationship, but at least they are going now.
They had a good thing going. Good for them that is. No telling how long they would've stayed if you hadn't brought up one word, "rent". That is some crazy stuff.
In my book, pride would have have been paying rent as soon as possible. That's a strange pride going on there. Not wanting to mess up a friendship with a business relationship? Seems like they wouldn't have wanted to mess up a friendship with a mooching relationship, but at least they are going now. They had a good thing going. Good for them that is. No telling how long they would've stayed if you hadn't brought up one word, "rent". That is some crazy stuff.
I wonder if they've found another "friend" with whom to live rent free.
In my book, pride would have have been paying rent as soon as possible. That's a strange pride going on there.
Not wanting to mess up a friendship with a business relationship? Seems like they wouldn't have wanted to mess up a friendship with a mooching relationship, but at least they are going now.
They had a good thing going. Good for them that is. No telling how long they would've stayed if you hadn't brought up one word, "rent". That is some crazy stuff.
I agree. I think the word arrogance seems more fitting.
Good to know that they will be gone soon.
I wonder if they've found another "friend" with whom to live rent free.
I wondered the same thing. Another friend, another secret arrangement. You could keep that gig going for quite a while.
Oh No!!!
That's April fools day!
Just kidding, I hope, glad things are coming to an end. Start bringing them home boxes and maybe a few Rubbermaid totes....
Lack of humility?
For pride--I was thinking that they were taking pride in the friendship and thus would not want to mess it up. We are such great friends after all? That was how I intended it. [ETA: It seems it is one of the 7 deadly sins and thus is not admirable and that is how I was using it. Humility is the virtue that counters that.]
I'm just going by how they have also described themselves. They were too proud of themselves to let anyone know that they had failed. Not that it was his fault that he lost a job and lost their ability to rent ($$$)--but by their own admission, their pride got in the way of allowing anyone to know they were vulnerable.
Whether this is a correct application of the word---I apologize if it is not. They do lack humility. Appearance is more important and no matter if it is for the best that they are not renting ($$$)--they did not care for the appearance of the relationship to change to where I presume they were servant (the tenant) and we were master (landlord). Their pride would not let them do that. Apparently it was not an issue in the gratis circumstance.
Anyway--don't mean to defend them. Just explaining the selection of the word even if I used it incorrectly.
And yes--arrogance is something I have witnessed from time to time.
No idea--I will certainly let you know if I find out where they move. I presume they must ask us to assist them, in which case we would find out. But I wonder if that will be discouraged.
She did update her vague post to let people know she was moving. So if it a secret arrangement again, she will have a bit of trouble keeping it secret for too long since she publicly announced her move.
I've done enough. They are perfectly capable of getting boxes and totes on their own.
Thanks all! Keep good thoughts that all goes as "planned"--from my end. While I hope their permanent arrangement works out--I'm just wanting good thoughts that the April 1 plan goes through without a hitch.
Dare I say--they aren't even Disney fans. The writing was on the wall.
This. And if these people dared to make any commentary about the way I lived my life to anyone, my only response would be "well it seemed to be OK when they were living here for free for 6 months" or whatever the time period has been.Just a point for consideration, your friend had no qualms moving into your home, making you feel like an inadequate houskeeper, set limitations on visitors to your home & was nervy enough to expect you to accommodate her laundry room territorial demands and now has nerve enough to balk at payment of any compensation when their finances make a Biblically miraculous rebound? How are they going to qualify for a mortgage these days w/ such a short time at new job, months of no housing expenses to show & downpayment funds coming from outside sources? If that's true on any level we are headed right back into another housing and financial crisis in a red hot minute.
That's right. I don't iron. If it comes out of the dryer wrinkled it gets washed again.What is sad there is more to the story. On a funny side note--all those memes that go around on facebook where the mom runs the dryer 5 or 6 times to dewrinkle the laundry that has been sitting there for 3 days? THAT'S SO ME!!!!!
Reality has arrived--we almost have our house back. They have spent the last week selling off a few furniture pieces (theirs ). Yesterday they rented a truck and moved their freezer and a couple pieces they were keeping. And right now they are loading their van for their remaining items to move into their hotel. They opted for an extended stay place with a negotiated month rate just a little bit more than what we would have charged. Not too shabby. Not sure why they didn't look sooner. And yes, I actually went "house" hunting with them. We saw 3 places and we were mocking the show--all in good fun.
As it turns out--joke is on me. I broke my ankle last week and I am non-weight baring. My husband is totally convinced they were hoping we would ask them to extend their stay for free--but that ship has sailed and we had no intention of doing that. I really don't know if they expected that.
In any case--my kids excitedly wait the moment they can be turned loose to reclaim their basement.
And I did see the house model where they signed their contract for the house. I don't pretend to know why they could scoot on in and get a house. Nor do I care. But it seems we always seem to have a set of friends that gets to do the unthinkable and end up in a better circumstance than we do when it seems completely illogical. C'est la vie.
Lesson learned!
And while it may be April 1st--it seems that we have not been fooled and it is all over. Now where is the one legged emoticon for the happy dance?
Reality has arrived--we almost have our house back. They have spent the last week selling off a few furniture pieces (theirs ). Yesterday they rented a truck and moved their freezer and a couple pieces they were keeping. And right now they are loading their van for their remaining items to move into their hotel. They opted for an extended stay place with a negotiated month rate just a little bit more than what we would have charged. Not too shabby. Not sure why they didn't look sooner. And yes, I actually went "house" hunting with them. We saw 3 places and we were mocking the show--all in good fun.
As it turns out--joke is on me. I broke my ankle last week and I am non-weight baring. My husband is totally convinced they were hoping we would ask them to extend their stay for free--but that ship has sailed and we had no intention of doing that. I really don't know if they expected that.
In any case--my kids excitedly wait the moment they can be turned loose to reclaim their basement.
And I did see the house model where they signed their contract for the house. I don't pretend to know why they could scoot on in and get a house. Nor do I care. But it seems we always seem to have a set of friends that gets to do the unthinkable and end up in a better circumstance than we do when it seems completely illogical. C'est la vie.
Lesson learned!
And while it may be April 1st--it seems that we have not been fooled and it is all over. Now where is the one legged emoticon for the happy dance?
Thanks for the update!
Sorry about your ankle! Ouch!
But, it will be so very nice to get back to normal! I hope you have some sort of celebration for your family! I'm sure I don't have to mention this, but don't let they come back!
Be good to yourself.
Thanks for the update!
Sorry about your ankle! Ouch!
But, it will be so very nice to get back to normal! I hope you have some sort of celebration for your family! I'm sure I don't have to mention this, but don't let they come back!
Be good to yourself.