lakelandgal70
Life is too short for fake butter, cheese or peopl
- Joined
- Apr 25, 2008
Completely understand, it is a different environment down here, to be sure. Hope everything works out for them though - best thoughts coming your way
Interesting - we went through a similar period of "should we / shouldn't we?". Thankfully, we landed on the same side you did. There are times we find it would be fun to have a little one, but those rare times are far outweighed by all the other times of "isn't it great not to be tied down?". I suppose one could see it as being selfish, but we enjoy our relative freedom.
Sorry to hear about your illness, and hope you're okay. That makes perfect sense, and unless someone goes through what you go through, i don't think they can fully understand. I know what you mean though, and fully agree.
Thanks! I have good days and bad days. The bad ones really make me appreciate the good ones haha. But it isn't going to stop me from living. I feel that is important to maintain a positive attitude no matter what bad things are going on in your life or the world.
Yeah I don't view it as selfish. I know a lot of people do but I think we all have different paths to take. I think the selfish ones are the ones that have a kid just so they aren't lonely, or someone to take care of them when they get old, or just to see what the kid would look like cause both parents are attractive lol. You know what I mean. I think people should just respect others decisions and butt out haaha