Alas, for us, the visit wasn't so great. The good thing, though, is that on our way off to the airport I met two CMs who seemed to have the ability to take feedback and perhaps make some changes with BBB as it pertains to boys.
Sure, BBB is mainly for girls, I understand that. However, they offer this ONE thing for boys, and I feel (call me crazy!) that if they're going to offer it, they need to do it RIGHT.
My boy isn't anti-girl. He likes them, and doesn't mind hanging out with them. Doesn't mind pink (though he doesn't want to wear it) or glitter or anything. I let him know that there would be many girls around him, and he was OK with it in theory and in reality.
The hair salon "capes" are blue (fine) with pink princess-head (Cinderella I think) on them. OK, OK, that's OK...would be nice if they had a few with a *knight* on them, since they have the "knight's" package, but OK. I mean, considering that we're supposed to be in Sleeping Beauty's castle it would make more sense to have Sleeping Beauty's image on the capes (and sign), so it makes no sense from any angle. Equal opportunity making no sense.
The choices for the Knight's package are...spikes or slicked back. My dude has no real concept of what slicked back might look like, but he knows that hubbys' short hair goes into spikes, so he chose spikes. Alas...despite a very recent haircut, it was too long. So if your guy has short hair, spikes are fine. But if it's a little longer, those spikes are going to look like true, damage-doing, spikes.
In looking at the pictures, I think it's not as bad as we felt it was at the time. E really didn't like it, and it took two days for us to figure out all the reasons. Some are because he just didn't like the spikes, others are reasons that probably won't mess with other kids, but I'll give you the reasons just in case.
The FGIT, who was really VERY nice and sweet and spent a LOT of time on him (it's supposed to be 15 minutes but we were there ages b/c of how careful and meticulous she was being), told him not to hug me until the colored gel she was putting in his hair was dry, so I didn't get red dye on me. A nice thought. However, he didn't really understand it, thought his hair would be like that forever, and therefore, we finally figured out, thought he would never be able to hug me again. Poor dude. Little kids get strange things into their heads sometimes, and it can be the simplest thing that puts it there, so just have it in your head that your kid might have a strange thought like that, if they have a weird reaction.
At the end, when they did the not-so-big reveal (they do a big thing for GIRLS, but with him it was just turning him around), he did not like it. So she offered to take some spikes down to make it a mohawk, but he doesn't know what that is. From all the little boys I saw with them, he must be in the minority, but that was the deal with us.
And the FGIT was really sweet and said all the right things about fixing it, and we tried to get him to talk, but he went all quiet. Told me the next day that he was scared to tell her that he wanted her to fix it, because he didn't want to make her mad.
I would have just had her do it, but that place was packed and I felt we had spent quite enough of her time already, so we just left.
He did like the sword and shield! I, personally, think they should give the parents a head's up first...the foam sword is just fine...the plastic sword was...too big to fit into our luggage. We had a big carryon that's a DVC tote with a zipper, we were using it for crackers, bagels, and bread (safe stuff for E), and we put it in there, just barely cramming it in, and thankfully the TSA agents we encountered were tremendously sweet and understood that it was a toy, but made sure we knew that not all TSA agents would have let it get past them. It's BIG (and we use luggage that's actually carryon size...if you use bigger, hard-sided, luggage you won't have a problem, but we did).
We also feel that the confetti is just silly. It took what could have been a pretty cool hairdo (with shorter hair, or even with his hair) into just silliness. In our opinion. I've seen pix of the "cool dude" hairdo at WDW and it looked fine in pix, and it actually looks OK in my pictures, but in person it just looked...well...silly.
E with hairdo with confetti and sword and shield.
Closeup of droopy spike and confetti and all.
Shortly after that pic was taken, someone said Happy Birthday to him, and we were greeted by a fellow dis'er, boiseflyfisher, if memory serves. It was cool.
He did get lots of compliments and looks from people all day. As the day went on he liked it more.
But he was VERY glad when we went back to the room and I rinsed it out before we went to the pool. Very glad to get "his" hair back.
Oh, and the last little bit of "if you're going to offer a thing for boys, do it right" is the keepsake thing you get. First, it's not something to get AFTER the visit. Rather it's something that should be given BEFORE. It talks about inviting you to step into the boutique, and shows the choices.
For girls.
Not for boys.
front:
back:
It's all princess-centric, and that's just not right. Who would it hurt to make up a page, even if it has to be in pink, without saying that they will turn "you into the princess of your dreams"? I don't think it would hurt anyone. Make up 10 or 20 boy brochures a day, there, you're done. Maybe get some knight-head capes. Have a picture of the hairdos available for boys so that smaller boys know what on earth is being offered to them. Not hard!
And the CMs I talked to at the end of our stay didn't think it was difficult to implement either, and thanked me strongly for my ideas. I'm hoping it will be better for other boys in the future!