All I can say is that be grateful you didn't do what my mother decided to do to us this year. She invited herself out to our place (it is plane ride away, or a lonnnng day in the car) to celebrate Christmas. By the time she told us, the plane tickets were purchased and she also informed us that she would be
staying with us too.
I'm currently pregnant and have been so sick (been in the hospital 2x, each for 4 days for dehydration), and we wanted a quiet family Christmas. Wellll..... the whole family is coming. She invited everyone. I'll have 30 people here Christmas day. I told her she has to do all the work. I just can't this year.
This is a chance to find a new tradition. What if you did a movie and dinner? Its funny, I'd love to trade with you in a heartbeat. Regardless, I hope you have a very Merry Christmas. Oh, and get yourself some chocolate!