love them all!!!!
and no mommy rant tears ladies! If we didn't rant and our kids don't hate us every now and then, then we are not doing our job!
Nancy, you and DD are just to much alike, that is why you butt heads so much. Change it up, give her a list and tell her to choose 2-3 chores to do. Give her the control. If the chores don't get done then she loses a privilege. x-country, phone, computer, tv, etc.....Life is all about choices.
can you tell I've been watching Supernanny? She's my hero! LOL