schumigirl
It's a bit of a roodie doodie word for lady parts
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- May 15, 2007
So sorry for the loss of your aunt and grand nephew. Life, illness and death, carries on despite holidays and pandemics. We know of people whose loved ones passed during lockdown periods and could not hold any sort of memorial gathering. That's tough. And a friend became a father for the first time which is also a stressful event made more stressful buy COVID hospital protocols. My very dearest friend received a cancer diagnosis early lockdown and has since had an operation and started chemo. Scary to have to visit hospital regularly when you know COVID is inside those walls.
My mil passed end of November last year, and my fil on Christmas Eve 2016, so we've had our share of sad Christmases but this year I found myself very nostalgic. I steamed a Christmas pudding for the first time, and made custard sauce for the first time. Not exactly the same as I recall my mum's to be but very close and it was lots of fun. We even made a trip to the Scottish butcher for all things Scottish. My Dad used to go fairly regularly and treat us to things but I hadn't been since he passed. Really enjoyed it and wanted all the things! My bother, who lives across the country from me (Canada) was very jealous to see a pic of my steamed pudding and now they are making one today lol. Lots of texts about appropriate bowls and racks etc, its just been a lot of fun. All that to say that eventually you push past all the sadness and on to the fond memories. My Dad had the cheek to pass away on Valentine's Day 2017. With my fil passing that Christmas Eve, and then Dad, I was a bit unnerved as Easter approached lol. Stop dying on holidays people!
Well, it is good to see you Dynamoliz........
I send my very best wishes to your friend. Such a scary time to be going through a horrible disease, all the added worry on top of everything else. Fingers crossed for a good outcome.
You have had a lot of loss around the holidays, but you are correct in being more reflective this year, and I love the sound of your pudding and custard. We love custard and always make my own, but I`ve done that since my mum taught me as a child. Good old Scottish cooking.......
Loving the sound of a Scottish butcher too.....we have some of the best products and meats in the whole world, and a few odd little things too....lol.....
You`re correct though, fond memories take over from heartache. Oh and yes, after those deaths I`d have been worried for Easter too.....it`s funny how the mind works sometimes......I spoke to my cousin in LI earlier and we both agreed no more deaths in our families. I wish.
So good to see you though and thank you for sharing your thoughts......so many are suffering and have suffered so much. Hope all is good with you though