Well, my friends (and middlepat), weve come to the end of the road on this TR. Thank you to all of you who stuck with me and were willing to take the time to read (or skim) as I droned on and on through the longest TR Ive ever done. As always, its a lot of fun to re-live the vacation, and to have good friends to share the adventure with (or trade sarcastic jabs back and forth).
A few final thoughts on Hawaii:
Make every effort to get there at least once in your lifetime. Yes, its expensive. Theres no way around the cost, although I tried to point out where you could shave a few bucks off the price here and there. But its a special place. You have world-class resorts and beaches, mountains and sheer cliffs, varying ecosystems, exotic wildlife and plantlife, cultural history, and even active volcanoes crammed into a relatively few square miles of land. And you can get Dole Whips.
As I continue to spend money you dont have, I would suggest you make every effort to stay at Aulani as well. Its an amazing resort, with something for everyone and an incredible level of detail. A must for Disney fans, and the best resort where Ive ever had the privilege to stay.
Julie and I felt Oahu and KauaI were the two most beautiful islands. Not that the others were hideous by any means, but those two islands have the oldest mountains, giving them the advantage of weathering and erosion. These forces helped form the sheer cliff faces that look so dramatic in photographs. In retrospect, we wish wed had a little more time to explore Kauai.
Our least favorite island (and this is like picking the ugliest supermodel) was the Big Island. We were glad we went to see Volcanoes National Parkthat was something we couldnt miss. But we didnt feel like there was anything else on the rest of the island that we would characterize as must-do. That and the long distances on remote roads made it a tough island to visit.
Favorite meal of the trip: Monkeypod Kitchen. I have a soft spot in my heart for the Hilo Burger Joint and Kua Aina Sanwich Shop, though.
Most memorable destinations: how do you choose? Aulani, Pearl Harbor, Diamond Head, the Hana Highway, Volcanoes National Park, Waimea Canyon.
Most memorable moments with the family: Playing at the Aulani waterslides. The kids surf lessons. Golfing at Kapalua with David. My 15th anniversary dinner/evening with Julie.
Best item not available in the rest of the U.S.: deep-fried apple pies at McDonalds.
Best host ever: my Aunt Carol.
Best airline we flew: Hawaiian. What, you thought Id say United?
I might have gone through and posted our favorite pictures again, but there are just so many its impossible to choose. What a beautiful, unique, exotic locale. One of my favorite places Ive ever visited.
I cant stress enough how good the kids did on this trip. We thought the long flights would be really difficult, and they couldnt have handled them any better. I think kids by and large are more resilient then we give them credit for. Sometimes they even put us to shame when it comes to handling inconveniences or things that dont go according to plan. Theres always some fear about pushing them beyond their limits on an experience like this, but I have yet to find a time when it hasnt been worth it to try.
Of course, now we have to take an infant along with us. Well see if I change my tune. Anyway, heres the plan for our next adventure, coming to a Trip Report message board near you sometime this summer:
The Oblivious Family Takes on the American Southwest
Saturday, Day 1: Fly 4.5 hours from BWI to Las Vegas, nonstop. Try not to be That Guy With The Screaming Baby on the flight. Upon landing, pick up rental car and provisions for road trip snacks and gourmet PB&J sandwiches.
Possible Dinner location: Bachi Burger (as seen on Diners, Drive-ins and Dives)
Sunday, Day 2: Visit Hoover Dam for tour in the morning. Drive to Cedar City, Utah in the afternoon.
Driving distance: 197 miles (3 hours, 17 minutes)
Possible Dinner Location: Centro Wood-Fired Pizza
Monday, Day 3: Visit Cedar Breaks National Monument and then spend the rest of the day at Bryce Canyon National Park. Try and maneuver among crowds as best as we can, maybe find a short hike or nice sunset spot. Were hoping to take advantage of a Ranger astronomy program at night that highlights the unusually clear night skies here.
Driving distance: 77.5 miles (1 hour, 32 minutes)
Possible Dinner Location: Uh
not much to choose from here. Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?
Tuesday, Day 4: Visit Zion National Park. Spend all day exploring/hiking. Hit the hotel pool in the evening.
Driving distance: 72.4 miles (1 hour, 21 minutes)
Possible Dinner Location: Oscars Café, Springdale, Utah
Wednesday, Day 5: Hardest driving day of the trip. Drive to South Rim of Grand Canyon (we really, really, really wanted to try to get to the North Rim as well, but its just too much to do with a baby). Once we reach the South Rim, enjoy the views!
Driving distance: 236 miles (4 hours, 29 minutes of mostly barren desert)
Possible Dinner Location: Limited to restaurants/cafeterias in the park
Thursday, Day 6: Spend all day exploring Grand Canyon National Park. Hopefully catch a nice sunset. Maybe sunrise too, if were still on East Coast time.
Driving distance: Nada.
Possible Dinner Location: same as above.
Friday, Day 7: Drive south to Sedona, AZ to see red rock formations. Then continue south, stopping at Montezuma Castle National Monument. Continue south to Phoenix, to the resort where Julie and I stayed on our honeymoon way back when.
Driving distance: 219 miles (3 hours, 49 minutes)
Possible Dinner Location: Claim Jumper (yes, its a chain, but they have something called cheese potatocakes, which are like deep-fried mashed potatoes and I discovered them on our last trip out there)
Saturday, Day 8: Stay in Phoenix. Enjoy the pools at the resort. Play desert golf. Maybe a tour of the Arizona Diamondbacks stadium? We might ax that just to rest.
Driving distance: minimal.
Possible Dinner Location: Pizzeria Bianco, supposedly one of the finest in the country. Or Thee Pitts Again, a bbq joint seen on DDD. Or a really good Mexican place, since this is a Southwestern trip. Any suggestions?
Sunday, Day 9: Longest driving day for distance/time. Get up early, drive 3 hours or so to Joshua Tree National Park in California. Break up the drive by exploring the park. Then continue west to Anaheim to get ready to explore some crappy tourist trap there.
Possible Dinner Location: Tortilla Jos, which my daughter loved when she was out there a couple of years ago.
Driving distance: 405 miles (7 hours)
Monday, Day 10: Disneyland! Cram in as much as possible in one day. Visit DCA first to try and ride Radiator Springs Racers and get FPs for World of Color. Spend most of the day in Disneyland park trying to see things that are different from Florida. Eat Monte Cristo at Café Orleans. See World of Color in the evening. Understand that theres no way we can possibly see everything in one day. Enjoy it anyway. Hopefully the kids will be surprised.
Driving distance: 0.
Possible Dining Locations: Café Orleans (dont you pay attention?), Flos V-8 Café (mostly because the kids would think it was cool)
Tuesday, Day 11: Last day. Hang around Downtown Disney and the Grand Californian as long as possible in the morning, postponing the inevitable. Then drive to Las Vegas.
Driving distance: 260 miles (3 hours, 49 minutes)
Possible Dining Location: Slaters 50/50 (burger joint in CA featuring patties that are 50% ground beef, 50% ground bacon)
Wednesday, Day 12: Fly home, nonstop LAS to BWI. Too exhausted to care if Im That Guy this time.
Total driving distance: 1493.3 miles.
In the desert. In the summer.
Hopefully the air-conditioning will work.
We tried to do the best we could in planning a trip that would take us to some new states the kids hadnt seen yet while being manageable with a baby. Most of the driving legs are either short, or broken up with something to see halfway through. A couple of those legs are aggressive, though, so hopefully the couple of rest days we have built in will do some good. Were also hoping we can stay on East Coast time a bit in order to get some early starts. Baby Drew might actually help in that regard!
In the end, Im sure well be exhausted. But thats part of the experience!
Im mostly excited for the kids. The Grand Canyon is one of those places that everyone should try to see. You cant fully capture its scope in pictures, and I think itll be a memorable experience for the family.
In the end, thats what we want to achieve. Long after the toys have broken, the Xbox has its last red ring of death, and the comic books have fallen apart, the kids will not remember the stuff they had. Theyll remember the things we did together. Vacations are some of the most vivid memories, because thats one of the few times in your life when you have your parents complete attention. Its true family time, with no distractions. I guess thats why we look forward to it so much. Time marches on, and soon we wont all be together to have that time. It gets more and more valuable the older we get. And it seems to slip away faster and faster.
So, lets get out there and do the best we can with it. Lets explore and see something new. As I keep telling my kids (and myself), dont be afraid to try something new. You either find something you love, or you end up with a great story.
Thanks to all of you for reading along.