I just spent another 2 hours on the phone. This is my 4th phone call since July. Two of our 4 passes were "incorrectly processed" on their side, so now they'll be cancelled effective today instead of with my other 2, which were correctly processed by their system in August. Still can't tell me what my refund amount will be, but I should expect the first 2, correctly processed refunds, "this week or next" and the 2 incorrectly processed, cancelled today, within 4 weeks or so. Also the CM tried to tell me last Monday was the very first round of refunds that had been processed at all, which I doubt is accurate based on other posts here on the DIS.
I'm so disappointed in how Disney is handling this, it has really killed the magic for me. We practically raised our kids at WDW, going 4-6 times a year their whole childhood, APs, DVC, all of that. At this point, I don't know if I'll ever enjoy WDW like I did before. There's no magic or pixie dust, just $ signs and policies. I'm so sad over it. I just want to go to Disney and make happy memories with my family, and that feels impossible after the way this set of interactions damaged my relationship with the Disney brand.