justhat
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- Oct 22, 2002
Originally posted by Deb & Bill
My take on this one is that the parent knows how long their child can continue until they are tired. So if the parent has made a late dinner seating because it was the only one they could get, they probably knew in advance that their kiddo was going to be tired and hungry long before they were served their dinner. I see far too many kids being pushed around the parks in strollers who are whining and crying only because Mom and Dad wanted to stay in the park longer to do more/see more. I was amazed to see so many small children at the Halloween party at 11PM. They probably should have been in bed hours before that.
Just because you are at WDW, a nice dining facility, etc., doesn't mean that you should upset your child's normal schedule. It's bound to cause the poor kid a problem. Only Mom and Dad know now long their kiddo will last before they can't take any more. Don't ignore that knowledge that only you have.
That can be true, however it's not always the case. Kids can be very unpredictable and so the kid who can normally last till 10pm or later (like my 3yo niece), may just get so overwhelmed after a day at the MK that at 8pm they're screaming. Other kids simply have no schedule, like my daughter, so each day is different and presents its own challenges. Of course, my daughter is very happy as long as I'm holding her, so no matter what time it is or where we are, I can be sure she won't cry cause if she fussed I'd hold her and she'd stop. Now, once she's a bit bigger this probably won't work (and unfortunately it doesn't work during the night when I want to sleep!) and I'll have to find new strategies, but as of now I'm okay. But if you have a kid like this, who is normally fine, you might not realize that being in WDW would cause new problems.
If kids are at a late dinner, it could have been the only one the family could get. Though I know that's hard for any of us to imagine, but it is true since many people have no idea that there are so many restaurants in WDW. When we went to WDW in May, it was with extended family and friends, most of which who had never been there before. One night we were invited to dinner at the CG with one couple on the trip, and the others were left to fend for themselves. Despite my info given to them pre-trip, they didn't know you should make a PS or what time restaurants opened or closed. So my SILs and my then 2 yo niece ended up having to eat at the snack bar at the hotel at 10pm because every place they tried in Epcot was booked and they didn't realize the park closed at 9pm. Now, my niece stays up late to begin with, so not a problem for her, but for some kids this would have been a problem, but not something her mom or aunt could have anticipated. This would not have happened to me as I planned before I went, but having never been there, my SIL didn't understand my need to plan, and still would not know how many possible places she could have eaten in. Lots of parents don't want their kids to eat cheeseburgers for every meal so they try to pick a sit down dinner, and when they get a PS time of 8:50, they may not know there are other restaurants, and therefore earlier dining times.
And Scrappymags, you're very right about every parent thinking they're perfect and so are their kids. I learned that working in day camp when I was 14. Of course, I hope not to be like that, but I'm sure I'll fall into that trap from time to time.