Hi Mark and Sandy!
Don't worry, the security will be fine and I think you'll feel better once you get there and see what it's really like. The kids will be fine in the club because their security is very good. On our previous trip, we were paged for our daughter, and since I'd never had a pager I kept wondering what the "strange noise" in our cabin was! They paged me again and by the time I figured out what it was, we raced to the club only to find that everything was fine and she wanted to stay longer!
This is a time of lots of anxiety, when all the planning we've done is finally coming to an end and it's really time to go. Sometimes we start second guessing ourselves at the last minute because we want everything to be just right, and see all the best sights, wear the right clothes, and have the best time possible. Even if you stay on the ship the entire time and your kids wear the same clothes every day, you'll have a wonderful vacation!
Having said that, I've been shopping for clothes like crazy the past few days, re-thinking our excursion choices, worrying about a snowstorm delaying our trip, and having general anxiety about all the details! I'm the planner and packer in our family, so I feel overwhelmed most times before we leave on a trip. I want it to go well because I've invested so much time and energy into the planning and am afraid I've forgotten something or made the wrong choices.
So I understand your anxiety and I think all the details are getting to you, but you really don't have to worry about security.
The kids will be fine too. My daughter didn't spend to much time in the club before and was with us most of the time and we had a really fun time together as a family. She will turn 9 on the trip this time, and I think she's looking forward to making some friends and spending more time in the club (now that she's more "mature"). She says she wants to eat with the kids from the club at the buffet every night. We might not see as much of her this time!
Also, you will have lots of support from all the members on this board, so try and relax and have fun. We hope to meet you on board!
Julie (DW), Scott (DH), Sarah (DD9), Noah (DS3)
*Disney Wonder Sept. 2002
*Disney Magic Jan. 2001