Okay, whatever. I guess you are the perfect parent, but time will tell. Your choice, but don't tell me my choice was wrong. My 2 DS are wonderful, happy adults. They have no "issues" from the few times they were swatted on the butt.
I do love the "times have changed" crap that people spout. Times are always changing, but you need to understand that doesn't mean you know better. Having been a parent for 30+ years I can tell you for a fact that your way is not better, just different.
My mom has told me many times that when she was a child, she would have much rather had a spanking than her parents disapproval. The disapproval impacted her self-esteem a lot more. I feel the same way.