I always try to give gift suggestions to family. They prefer it and so do I. I sometimes have trouble coming up with gift ideas for my young adult kids, so I have come up with this idea for some of the gifts: I find something fairly big that I think they will like but am not sure or would need further input (e.g. cowboy boots, new coat, big ladder for son's new house, Y membership). I make a card with a picture of that thing and enclose the cash that it would cost. There is always the understanding that if they would prefer to buy something else or just use the cash to pay bills, that is fine with me. That way they get the thoughtfulness of me selecting a gift with the flexibility of cash.