mamaofsix
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 8, 2017
I come from a family who loves to give gifts - and so do I! Not sure if you've heard of the book "Love Languages," but the act of giving and receiving gifts is, for some people and numerous cultures, a primary way that they experience love. Sounds like a lot of people on this thread do not have gifts as their love language, lol. When this is how you like to show your love, gift cards and cash end up seeming so impersonal. I have felt crushed when I've worked hard to find a special gift from someone and then find out later that they immediately sold it or threw it out. It's a very hurtful thing to be on the receiving end of. However, with six kids I also completely understand that there comes a time where you don't need more toys, trinkets or dishware!
Our strategy is to ask for consumables when they are looking for suggestions.
For the kids, we often ask for:
-Bath products (bubble bath, fun tooth paste, battery powered toothebrushes, kid-friendly shampoo / conditioner)
-Treat packs for school lunches that we don't normally get them
-Colouring books / puzzle books and crayons or markers
For us, we suggest:
Favouriite snacks (my husband loves flavoured popcorn or cashews - I love chocolate!)
A great magazine, combined with a yearly subscription for it.
High end bath products, perfume or makeup that I might not normally splurge on.
This way the giver still gets to give a physical gift, but the receiver isn't bogged down by extra "stuff." Because the gift will likely be consumed and gone within a matter of weeks
Our strategy is to ask for consumables when they are looking for suggestions.
For the kids, we often ask for:
-Bath products (bubble bath, fun tooth paste, battery powered toothebrushes, kid-friendly shampoo / conditioner)
-Treat packs for school lunches that we don't normally get them
-Colouring books / puzzle books and crayons or markers
For us, we suggest:
Favouriite snacks (my husband loves flavoured popcorn or cashews - I love chocolate!)
A great magazine, combined with a yearly subscription for it.
High end bath products, perfume or makeup that I might not normally splurge on.
This way the giver still gets to give a physical gift, but the receiver isn't bogged down by extra "stuff." Because the gift will likely be consumed and gone within a matter of weeks